Ladies Trip For Lekan In Wheelchair! ~ BimzTheory

The Thursday edition of the show Lights Out On radio was explosive! Many people called in to talk about the lady that was HIV positive but is yet to disclose to the guy she has been dating for 8 months now.

In the midst of all these calls,a young man named Lekan called in as well and said the lady was wrong for not being upfront with her boyfriend. Firstly,the guy's voice was really deep and sexy and he sounded so confident in the way he spoke.(mesef dey trip!Lol)

He then went on to use himself as an example and said he meets so many girls everyday who talk to him on phone and even get to like him but when they meet him in person, they change their minds because he is on a wheelchair!!

Yup! This guy is crippled in his legs. He said initially,he used to hide this fact but when he kept seeing the disappointment on ladies faces when they meet him he decided to be upfront and tell them once they start talking on phone.

Now, what is interesting is that immediately after Lekan called in so many ladies started asking for his phone number!!! Infact while most of them were like 'I just want to know him as a friend and nothing more because he sounds very intelligent' two other ladies outrightly said they want to meet him because they don't mind dating him!!!

This was indeed a wake up call for me which is why I decided to share because at the end of the day being TRUTHFUL about who and what you are is indeed the BEST thing to do.

You might feel like you are in a disadvantaged situation especially if one is physically challenged in terms of being disabled e.g blind,deaf,crippled etc but I want to encourage anyone in that situation to be CONFIDENT in who you are!!!

Until Lekan said he was crippled and in a wheelchair I never even knew...why? Because he spoke in a very confident manner even more confident than some of us that have all our body parts functioning properly.

Infact it became a challenge of sorts on the show as many other young guys were calling in to say they were jealous at the way ladies calling in were tripping for Lekan(LOL)

However,the bottomline remains that you should ALWAYS be sincere and upfront about who and what you are. Its either people accept and like you for that or they don't. Please don't pretend to be who or what you are not.

I still continue to accept mails on relationship issues for general discussions and support at bimztheory@gmail.com