Cheating
in relationships seems to have grown in huge proportions in recent times and it
seems like its not a big deal to cheat or be cheated on. You hear all sorts of
reasons for cheating and they include, he/she was too busy, he/she was not
caring enough, he/she was not romantic enough and the most popular one ‘the
devil made me do it’(Lol…forgive me)
However,
I stumbled on another one recently on the internet where a research was carried
out and 82% of married male who cheat said having children is a main reason they commit
adultery…hmnnnnn. Initially I was like….’NO!’ but then I sat back to analyse it
and realized it could be true.
The common reason the men gave is that they began being
unfaithful after having children because their wives stopped being passionate
after the baby came. I can imagine some of you rolling your eyes but it is
true. Many wives after childbirth stop fanning the flames of desire in their
marriages.
This
could be true because having children can be stressful especially when they are
still babies. There is the issue of not sleeping well at night, financial
pressure and a shift of attention by the mother from her husband to the child.
So
a word of caution to those that are mothers, remember your spouse was there
before the baby and when the baby grows into an adult and he/she would leave
the house and it will be you and your spouse again. If you don’t show your
partner the attention he needs guess what a thousand and one ladies out there
are ready to help you(God forbid)
And
to those that are not yet married and cheating on your significant others
please stop it or else……….(fill in the blanks Lol!)
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